BEREAVED PARENTS

We are so sorry for your loss.

Losing a child is incredibly painful, and our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Please know you are not alone, we are here to listen, support you, and walk alongside you in any way we can.

At Shropshire Telford and Wrekin Local Maternity and Neonatal Service, we are committed to ensuring every parent and family feels heard and valued. Your voice matters, and your experiences can help us improve the care we provide.

We are truly grateful if you feel able to share your story with us. We understand how emotional this can be, so please only do so if or when you feel ready. Below, you’ll find details of organisations that may offer additional support if you need it.

You will also find a link to our feedback form designed to capture your thoughts. You may wish to tell us about a particular team or share whether you felt treated with compassion, received clear information, or were supported in making decisions about your care.

We hold every experience shared with us with deep care and respect. Even in the midst of your pain, your reflections can help us understand what felt supportive and where more could have been done to help. Your voice matters deeply, and by sharing your story, you are helping to shape kinder, more compassionate care for other families in the future.

Your insights will be included in our reports to the Local Maternity and Neonatal System (LMNS) board, helping us identify areas for meaningful improvements in partnership with local NHS teams.

The feedback form can be found here: https://www.smartsurvey.co.uk/s/BTMJ27/

You may find the following local services useful

You may find these national services useful:

  • SANDS (Stillbirth and Neonatal Death Society)

    Offers support and information for anyone affected by the death of a baby, before or after birth. National helpline, local parent-led support, literature, and online support. Tel: 020 7436 7940 (general enquiries); Tel: 0808 164 3332 (support), www.sands.org.uk, sands.org.uk/app

    Shropshire SANDs is a local support group running friendly and relaxed meeting, providing bereaved parents, families, and friends with an opportunity to meet others who have been through a similar experience. Support meetings are held: Where: Meeting Point House, Southwater Square, Telford TF3 4HS When: 2nd Tuesday of each month 19:00-21:00hrs.

  • Support Group for Dads

    Dad Still Standing is an online group created as a way of helping other dads along their journey with grief. To discuss the difficulties, they go through in bereavement, both in the immediate aftermath of baby loss and as time moves on. - https://www.dadstillstanding.com/

  • Child Bereavement UK

    Child Bereavement UK helps children, young people, parents, and families to rebuild their lives when a child grieves or when a child dies. They support children and young people up to the age of 25 who are facing bereavement, and anyone affected by the death of a child of any age. Child Bereavement UK, Helpline: 0800 0288840, Email: helpline@childbereavementuk.org

  • Lullaby Trust

    Bereavement support after the death of a baby or child - www.lullabytrust.org.uk, Support: 0808 8026868, Email: support@lullabytrust.org.uk

  • Lily Mae Foundation

    Baby loss support service - 01676 535716 -www.lilymaefoundation.org

  • Miscarriage Association

    01924 200 799 - www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk - info@miscarriageassociation.org.uk

  • Multiple Births Foundation (MBF) Provides support and information for multiple birth families (including bereavement support) www.multiplebirths.org.uk

  • Aching Arms (Supporting Arms)

    Aching Arms offers direct support to parents via their Supporting Arms support service, a telephone and email support service which is run by bereaved parents. The service offers families the chance to talk to someone who understands what they’re going through and helps them feel they’re not alone.

    07464 508994

    Email: support@achingarms.co.uk

  • Samaritans

    Offers confidential support that is available 24 hours a day to people who need to talk

    116 123 (UK) free

  • Cradle Charity

    CRADLE is a national Mental Health charity providing support to anyone affected by the death of a baby during pregnancy, or termination of pregnancy - https://cradlecharity.org/

  • Tommy’s

    Miscarriage, stillbirth and premature birth charity who offer support following a pregnancy loss, Baby loss information and support | Tommy’s (tommys.org) - Email: midwife@tommys.org - Support: 0800 014 7800

  • Twins Trust Bereavement Support Group

    Offers support for families who have lost one or more children from a multiple birth pregnancy, birth or at any time.

    www.twinstrust.org/bereavement

  • Winston’s Wish

    Offer support to bereaved children, their families, and professionals

    Helpline: 08088 020021

    www.winstonswish.org.uk

  • TFMR Mamas
    Offering support for families who have experienced a Termination for Medical Reason. -
    https://www.tfmrmamas.com/

  • Petals – The Baby Loss Counselling Charity
    0300 688 0068 -
    counselling@petalscharity.org - https://www.petalscharity.org/

Support and Resources for Families and Staff

  • Contact details for Specialist Midwives - Bereavement

    Office Number: 01952 565953

    Urgent queries:

    Delivery suite (24hrs)

    Tel number- 01952 565924

  •  SANDS (Stillbirth and Neonatal Death Society)

    Offers support and information for anyone affected by the death of a baby, before or after birth. National helpline, local parent-led support, literature, and online support.

    Tel: 020 7436 7940 (general enquiries); Tel: 0808 164 3332 (support)

    www.sands.org.uk

    sands.org.uk/app

 

  • Natural Death Centre

    Offers support, guidance and advice for families and other individuals who are arranging a funeral, including information about environmentally friendly funerals and woodland burial sites.

    www.naturaldeath.org.uk

    Helpline: 01962 712690

  •  Aching Arms (Supporting Arms)

    07464 508994

    Email: support@achingarms.co.uk

  •  Parental Bereavement Leave

    Government scheme enabling parents who lose a baby or child to be entitled to parental leave (April 2020)

    www.gov.uk/goverment/news/uk-first-who-lose-a-child-entitled-to-bereavement-leave

  •  Remember My Baby Remembrance Photography

    UK-based charity who have professional photographers who voluntarily provide their photography services to parents whose baby dies before, during or shortly after birth.

    www.remembermybaby.org.uk

    Email: info@remembermybaby.org.uk

  •  Samaritans

    Offers confidential support that is available 24 hours a day to people who need to talk.

    116 123 (UK) free

  • Tommy’s

    Miscarriage, stillbirth and premature birth charity who offer support following a pregnancy loss.

    https://www.tommys.org

    Email: midwife@tommys.org

    Support: 0800 014 7800

  •  Twins Trust Bereavement Support Group

    Offers support for families who have lost one or more children from a multiple birth pregnancy, birth or at any time.

    www.twinstrust.org/bereavement

  •  Winston’s Wish

    Offer support to bereaved children, their families and professionals

    Helpline: 08088 020021

    www.winstonswish.org.uk

  •  NHS Choices

    The UKs biggest health website, certified as a reliable source of health information:

    www.nhs.uk

    Evidence based information on a wide range of medical and health topics.

    http://patient.info

  • TFMR Mamas

    Offering support for families who have experienced a Termination for Medical Reason.

    https://www.tfmrmamas.com/

  •  2Wish

    We provide immediate and ongoing support, such as memory boxes, bereavement rooms within hospitals, counselling, play therapy and complementary therapy.

    https://2wish.org.uk/

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